How to Ask a Girl for More Pictures

How to Ask a Girl for More Pictures

Your query is: will asking for extra pics be perceived as offensive? 

No, it may not be perceived as offensive, however, she’s put you in a powerful spot. It could possibly be perceived as superficial.  Of course, all of us understand online dating is, inherently, superficial, so don’t fear an excessive amount of about that; focus as a substitute on asking respectfully for extra pics.

Here’s how to politely and respectfully ask to see extra photographs of her:

1) Begin by beginning a dialog!

It’s higher to ask for extra photographs as soon as you have been speaking forwards and backward a bit, first.  If you don’t need to be perceived as superficial, you might have to first show that you’re not – by being occupied with studying extra about her earlier then you might have a crystal clear, excessive-decision picture of precisely what she seems to like.

2) Wait a couple of stable message exchanges.

Get the dialog going first.  Then wait for 2 messages every — if every message is a paragraph of a couple traces or extra — or 5 messages every in the event that they’re fast, texting-type messages.

3) Ask politely to see extra pics!

After you’ve been speaking forwards and backward and also you each appear engaged within the dialog, say one thing like

“Hey, I’m sure you probably have a good reason for not wanting it to be really obvious who you are from your pictures. But I’m starting to feel like I don’t know who I’m taking with me! I’d love to put a face to this great conversation we’re having. Could you send a photo or two?”  

You might make it clear that you’re not asking for bare pics right here, but when your messages have been tame and respectful then she should not understand your request as creepy.  To be further cautious, although, you’ll be able to all the time add:

“Nothing disrespectful implied…Above the shoulders is all I’m asking for!”

What if she would not need to share extra photographs or does accuse you of being a creep for asking? 

Red flag, sadly.  She’s in all probability hiding one thing.  If she accuses you of being a creep after you have been having a fully respectful and pleasant dialog, I like to recommend you save yourself a while and finish the communication.

Since her profile is a tiny bit sketchy from the beginning, bear in mind that is a chance!  But hopefully, she’s simply uncomfortable about coworkers or pals discovering out she’s online dating, and he or she’ll be joyful to ship you photographs privately.

Also, bear in mind that footage can lie!  If you’ve been on at least one first date with somebody you met online, you’ve in all probability skilled in this!  That’s additionally why it is a good technique – in the event, you’re speaking with a woman and it is going properly – to counsel assembly as early as potential while nonetheless being well mannered.  Then you will get to the “what she actually looks like in real life” half.

It’s additionally higher to meet in individual as a result of then you’ll be able to see if there’s chemistry!

If you’re on the fence about whether or not not to ask her for extra photographs, however, you’ve been having a nice dialog, contemplate skipping to the primary date!  Check out these articles for how to counsel assembly, how to put together a web-based dating first date, and what to speak about on a first date.  Go get ‘em, tiger!!

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